Moving to a New Country

In this day and age of globalization it is common practice to move from not only one city to another but country to country and continent to continent.  Yet, it is still a stressful, and daunting task to move from one place to another.  Different customs, language, lay out of the city and manner of doing things all contribute to feeling overwhelmed and somewhat displaced, especially if you do not speak the language of the country to which you are moving.

Of course there are many aspects that affect the ease and success of moving:  family dynamics, reason for the move, willingness to move, and so forth.  Keeping that in mind, it is important for companies to provide as much information and support as possible, including  setting the expectations prior to the move.

For the individual/family who has accepted an assignment and is getting ready to move or if you are in transit or have already arrived, here is what you can do to make it a positive, educational and fun experience.  

1)     Prepare ahead of time and read about the country, city that you will be going to.  Find out as much as possible about the area, the culture and way of life.  See if anyone in your company has been there on assignment and invite them to dinner so they can share their experience. If you cannot take a preview trip go online and research.  There are so many tools, resources and information today that are just a click away.

2)    Learn the language!  And I don’t mean that you have to be fluent, learn the basic and key phrases so that you can ask questions and communicate a little.  This is so important, even the slightest effort shows people that you have an interest in their country and that you are trying.  You will be amazed at the doors that open for you with that little extra effort.

3)    Be a part of the community!  If you have children it is that much easier to get involved because your children are the conduit to meeting other families.  If you don’t have children it will take a little more effort but it will be worthwhile in the end.  Volunteer or join a club that offers meetings, classes that you are interested in.   If you can do it as a family that is even better.  Go and meet the people in your community including your next door neighbor.

4)    Having one foot in your home country is important, just as important as being involved in the community that is now your new home.  It helps one to stay grounded and in touch with what is going on at home.  The people from your home country who have been in your new community for a while can be a great resource, not to mention become wonderful friends.

5)    Remember that there will be days that are difficult, and depressing along with good and great days, it is part of adjusting to a new environment.  Being without extended family and friends adds to those feelings of sadness.  Yet being aware of your feelings and knowing that it is normal is a big help in the transition process. And staying in touch with family and friends is key for everyone.

6)    So, go ahead,  go out and explore your new community, and yes you will most likely get lost but that is the first step in getting to know your way around, do things just for you, take in what your new home has to offer.   It’s an adventure –  live it!